Allan & John,

{{{{{Hugs}}}}}

I am sure that you will both feel your Mothers' presence around you and the loss will not feel so heavy, after a while. I find that people who have passed over will often come to see me briefly just after they pass, but then after a gap of usually 3 to 6 months they come to visit more regularly.

The gap often depends on how much physical or emotional healing they need to do, on the other side. I often see them lying on a bed, in a beautiful garden, with their friends and loved ones at their bedside, watching over them as they recover their former physical and emotional strength. The idea of the ship disappearing from view over the horizon, and being welcomed in a different place - that says it for me.

Helen