Hell of a dilemma Art. I've been there. Not with my current inlaws (who are great) but in a couple of past situations. The one thing that is certain is it will put an even greater strain on a relationship that probably ain't 100 percent to begin with. As I get older (and broker) I find I'm more likely to do what you did. After all, what are they gonna do, block my career oportunities?

Rick