Tar Heal,

I checked McGrath's post above that has a clickie to your website. He's right, you do have a lot to share with us about your musical experiences. Please do! You are most welcome to. You other 'catters should check the website as well. You feel terribly hurt or powerless about SOMETHING. I hope you figure it out and deal with it and come back and tell us of your experiences with music. We do care, you know.