Thanks for the comments Bob.

I just feel that if people can say what has happened to them, it can sometimes help others.

I am like you a bit. A sandwich. 58 with wife and children and the situation with my parents. But you just have to get on with it. :-)

Incidentally to be a Villan is to be an Aston Villa soccer supporter. If you are in the UK you will know what I mean. :-)

Les