I posted some stuff relevant to this in the 'Where do you draw the line?' thread.

I don't want to go on about her - I could fill pages... :-) but somehow - in her - what passes for a - mind, it's all my fault! She was getting out the police regularly when the wind would blow down things in her yard that she had not put up securely - and somehow that was supposed to be my fault... aggh!

Robin