My 28 year old son, who has gone through more struggling in his life than I have at 68 had spent the last few years intensely concentrating on trying to become a better person and catch up with a lot of emotional growing up he was behind on. I talked to him the other night and where he usually has a whole check list of things he feels inadequate about, he was very relaxed. He says he's just decided to take a break on all this self-improvement stuff and enjoy listening to music, reading and doing nothing. I felt so good about that. He's become more comfortable with living with himself. Now, he deserves some quiet time, just to enjoy who he has become.

Jery