I'm coming onto most of these threads way too late, but that's because I'm limited to the time I can spend online...sorry. I just wanted to say this...
I'm a child of the 60s, and looking back on my sexual history, I have had far more sex because I felt I was supposed to, than sex because I was ready for it.
Being older for me means learning what I really like, and what feels right, and not feeling pushed by anyone or anything to act before I'm damn well ready.
Follow your gut on this. Wait until you're ready, whether it's after one or one hundred dates. This is harder for woman because we've been taught to acquiesce, but age also has it's privileges, and the the biggest is to be who you've grown into being, yes?
..xx..e