I posted as "guest" (6th post). I deleted cookies the other day and forgot the forum would do that.

I still believe in what I said, regardless of the other opinions presented.
Life is short? All the better to savour the desire and other intangible feelings leading up to making love. As a middle age(?)(37) male I find others constantly flirting with me because of the ring on my finger and really don't know how to react. Are they joking or serious? I suppose it doesn't matter because I'm just a faithful old dog anyway.

This isn't a game. This isn't a food item with an expiration date.
Making love is a selfless "miracle" between two lovers where each should be giving themselves to the other while trying their best to love and please the other.

I believe the best way to express what I'm trying to say is with that great line from a Who song:

"One and one don't make two, One and one make one"

Call me a Southern Gentleman or a hopeless romantic, its how I feel.