9 years ago, I took a moonlit walk on a sandy beach with a great looking guy who was, alas, married.
I don't do married men.
After some consideration, he decided he didn't care to cheat on his wife.
We both agreed we didn't want sand in our underwear.
OH Well.
There are plenty of single women on the beach. But we don't all look like Playboy Centerfolds. It has been my experience that men are more interested in the package than the contents.