Remember that fatigue is an increasing stress factor. the stay up til 1 and get up at 6 routine that was highly functional in youth may just plain be sleep deprevation as the body ages... ( It probably was earlier, but youth overroad it...)


Have fun together, laugh, take a look and see if the enjoyment of each other is still in place before you start worrying about the end result. Sometimes you need to take the time and rediscover who you have become. Courting and Wooing have a real place in longterm relationships.