Ive been with my partner for 3years, we married last summer.
Ilove her deeply, we have much in common, music love of the outdoors, and we can talk about anything, usually we think of the same thing at the same time. Our lovemaking frequency dropped from every night to mostly weekends (so about 3x a week). I would never have thought this
but at one point I was relieved, oh can we just sleep tonight?
I think part of it is hitting 40 and declining hormone levels. My partner is 13yrs younger and is pretty much ready anytime.
but I feel, being tired working long hours does have a lot to do with reduced lovemaking during the week.