Like Heartbroken, I've been there and done that......and for a while I thought my heart WAS broken. I consider now that I was "groomed" while I was extremely vulnerable after a long term relationship break up, which this person knew about as they had taken care to befriend me through an internet chatroom. Having dome some research I found that this person has a history of finding and using the vulnerable and have informed official channels. I consider myself lucky, I ended up having a complete breakdown. Being older and wiser I would never go down that road again. Make your friends in real time and in the real world.