I totally agree, Freda, Kendall and Jacqui. Maybe there are more of us on this particular planet than first appeared.

I've just re-read my post, and so as to clarify things, when I said "Listen, ladies", I wasn't addressing Mudcat ladies and implying any of you go around preying on other people's husbands/boyfriends - I was addressing the predatory women out there in the world who are doing that. Thought I'd better clarify that - I don't want to cast aspersions or cause offence !