What about when you talk, and your partner doesn't seem to listen?!!!?! I don't know if maybe that's a control thing, or what. But when I go to the trouble of telling you what I like and don't like, is it too much to ask that you might remember? I have been with the same person for 15 years and sometimes I feel like I'm still trying to train him.

And I'll tell you another thing I absolutely hate. I don't like being asked "did you come" or "is it good for you" or anything like that. First of all, if you have to ask, then you're not paying attention. Second, I'm not convinced you're asking because you really want to know - you're asking to enhance your own sense of manly accomplishment. And third, do you really think I'm going to say "no"?

Grrrrrrrrrr.