I know what I consider good about me, the difficulty is, are they the same things that other people consider good about me? Two people who have shared a great many things in my life would give completely opposite answers on one of my things, but who would be right? The answers would come from their perspective, and not knowing the truth or the intent behind the action.

Being positive about yourself should be like wetting yourself in a dark suit. No-one else notices, but you get a lovely warm feeling.

LTS