Ellenpoly,

Do you seriously believe that after 4 decades of Feminism that any of the thoughtful, sensitive, woman-affirming men here at the Mudcat would even think of offering the women in their lives for sex?

Where's the Mudcat women (other than your kind offer - and hell, I'm looking into raising $5,000 for myself)?

Brucie - check out local AA meetings. There's something that's called the 13th step you might like.