Wow! And here I've been under the impression that everyone is so polite to each other, even in their heavy disagreements. This is the first thread that really aimed at much as personality as performance.
It makes for fascinating reading, which is all I do here, not having met any of you yet personally. Perhaps that's the difference. The veils are down, the faces seen, and voices heard...Still, it does show that mudcat is a microcosm of our world. Things will be said that are hurtful, and one learns what is useful...