"It's how they play the hand they're dealt."

I do understand the point that was intended. However, whenever I see that expression I am reminded of how important it is for us, whenever possible, to do some of our own dealing. No, we never hold all the cards; but taking hold of some of them and dealing our own hands can be the very best thing we can do for ourselves. It is then that we become our own heroes.


Sometimes, though, this leaves us playing with half a deck.



Sorry, couldn't resist that last bit.