GUEST,

I think it is quite the opposite -- the strongest and brightest women I know usually really don't like the shallow eyelash batting stuff and speak frankly as well as compassionately. Shallow women and shallow men are much more polarized than strong and intelligent members of either sex are, IMHO...On the other hand being plain human sometimes takes more courage than some folks have in them, and there's nothing to do but scamper around like Little Hawks mole, half blind and half terrified, trying to jump.




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