The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #13893   Message #116492
Posted By: Barbara
22-Sep-99 - 01:34 PM
Thread Name: Music Etiquette Question -- Blind Spots
Subject: RE: Music Etiquette Question -- Blind Spots
Yeah, Jeri, thanks. I've been trying to get up my courage to stop and stare at him when it happens. I'm working on it.
You know, I really think he talked without thinking, though maybe that particular verse made him uncomfortable. I'm pretty sure he really doesn't remember doing it.
You know how, when someone in the room is doing something really gauche, how everyone will sort of put their blinders on and move away, while erasing the event from their consciousness? I think that's what he does. I make him feel ill at ease, so he erases me.

You want to come along to this meeting with me and be my moral support, Jeri?
Blessings,
Barbara