I think i said good actions, Liz.

yes, the world is a psychic control game, people have their own perceptions, needs and goals, and good intentions can have their own other unconscious motives.

but good actions create good ripples, and these ripple postively ever outwards.

part of the challenge/fun is learning to respond to other people's responses - is it interference, obstruction, based on their own possibly negative views? do they have a better way?

and how do you walk away from a bad situation, without taking it with you?

yes, the cursing thread is fun, but a curse mentality binds you to the other other person, and to those events. observing, understanding, forgiveness, letting go, and making further choices to discriminate positively, and to keep creating new goals, achievements, these are the liberating choices.

freda