Good to hear you are home Tom! Now, read and then re-read everything Spaw said. And remember to get plenty of rest. You will start to feel better and want to take on some projects. Use that time to ignore the projects and just move around a little. If you stat something you may find that you run out of oomph before you run out of project. Don't sit too long but don't work too hard either.

Oh, and keep on loving that woman because she is something special. You are so lucky to have her to share lives with.