I can no longer "go" as many times of a night as I used to (not divulging actual number). The only frequent "going" now is for nature's calls.

And I can still not get into those trousers I kept for 15 years for "when I lose weight".

But I have rediscovered the pleasures of handholding, cuddling, head-on-the-shouldering etc, only now without the embarassing and often painful side-effects I suffered in my youth. At least, not as often.