my daughter has a friend whose mother died last year. this girl is on antidepressants and going to a therapist. now she is a lovely girl and very intelligent. But shouldnt she be allowed to grieve for her mum?

when i die, I don't want my kids to be happy, I want them to go off and have a good howl. AND then later be happy, in about forty years, ehren theyve recovered from the shock.