When I was very young, I was taught how to be an accompanist, also how to be a member of an ensemble.

My father and I used to go to 'old folk homes' as they were called, him on violin and me on piano. I also played piano and pipe organ for Sunday School and Church for many years. Later on I also worked in amateur theatre, backstage and onstage. In high school, I was part of the 'jazz band combo'.

It may be natural for some, but it is a skill that can be taught, and a skill that can be learnt.

It involves controlling one's personal ego, working for the good of the greater, rather simply than being selfish. You have to firstly see and listen to what is going on around you. In this respect, martial arts training can also be a help.

Robin