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   I have no issue with the song that is sung being heard at all. That wasn't my point. For some of us, playing with singers is a new experience. Patience is always a good thing. New folks are going to have questions and need some gentle guiding. If there are songleaders or singers out there who want only those with experience under their belt, they should only play with those who have that experience.

    In my own personal experience, I have found that most people are pretty patient with me. It had been years since I held a band instrument and even longer for the fiddle (orchestra). I had a hard time following music and would frequently get lost. After some time has passed, that is no longer an issue. I am greatful to those who were patient with me in the very beginning. I did run into some who had some issues with questions I had and got angry with me. That's life. I certainly didn't mean to offend anyone and have apologized. I did not know what to do but I guess it was thought that I should have known or did know. I don't know. I have continued to play and have even started a brand new instrument. My coach is a great guy and I'm sure that when his ears stop bleeding, he'll still be my friend *G*

    For me, playing music is for fun, relaxation and enjoyment. It makes me happy. I don't do it for money or for performance...but rather for the peace it brings me. When it's not peaceful, it's no longer for me.

    Thanks for your post...lots of information there.

Michelle