I suspect that that kind of heavy-handed stuff is a signifcant factor in   encouraging some smokers to stick with the habit.

It is for me, and very much so McGrath. When I can completely detach myself (emotionally) from other people's harsh judgments and controlling preachy obnoxious manner, I know I'll be a lot better off. Because when I'm free of my defensiveness and anger, I'll be able to ACT, not just react.

I've been working on this. I think I almost have it licked.

daylia