I did read the entire thread. I know you are not a foster parent.

Which is why I, and many others on this thread, suggested you could enquire about the process of becoming one.

Like I said it would involve a rigorous assesment on yourself and plenty of professional help and training. However you seem to think you need neither.

Had this been an authorised fostering the CHILD'S return to her birth mother would be being monitored right now. THAT is in the interest of the child.