Oh skipy, I'm so sorry you didn't get a sweet! Had thought that the tin had been passed around fairly but seems you were by-passed. The situation will be rectified at some point soon *grin*

I do hope that this lady will be able to change her views about the MudCat. We tried to make the Gather at Banbury as welcoming as possible (to all, not just Catters) & surely it's at face-to-face events like these where misunderstandings (as I'm sure it must have been) can be ironed out.

It's so easy to be hurt by Black'n'White stuff on the Net, whether intended or not. A smile helps.