Tansy, Glad you haven't gone away. It's the coffee-shop for me - Mucat. Like the stroll around the square for Mooh.
Take a look at the thread, "What did your Granny do" Mr World-weary has contributed a wonderful little story about his Granny. Sometimes he sips tea from the chocolate teapot just like many of us*.

*(injoke - Mr World-Weary once told someone offering me advice that it was about as useful as the said device. He was quite right too.) Joy