so, JeZeBel, how are you doing now? Last night was the FIRST attack of stage fright ever, for us. YUCK! 25+ gigs in the last 6 months, but first time on a stage, for a concert. Thank heavens for kind audiences, and being just the warmup! I was fine.......until i got ON stage, and started playing......shaky hands, and dulcimer hammers do NOT mix!