BTW, the "how many wives" crack referred to the song lyric posted by sixtieschick.

It reminds me of the joke that goes "What do you call a musician who just broke up with his girlfriend/wife?"

There is absolutely nothing wrong with aiming for the heavens, and dreaming big, especially if you are young, and have a lot of talent and drive to succeed, and I don't mean merely on financial terms. I mean on artistic terms. In terms of being successful in your intimate relationships, being present in them especially--not just the paycheck/breadwinner, the rest of the work f being in relationship be damned. In terms of being a successful ambassador for whatever type of music it is you play. Being a successful, contributing member of your community locally and globally. And once you are in the position to do so, giving back generously by bringing other musicians and humans along as a mentor and teacher, neither of which need be done formally.