I like the idea of contract marriages...five year term renewable ...release without penalty...

The whole concept of remaining with the same person for life is one which I feel sets any partnership up for failure.

People change and grow - not necessarily in the same direction.

Enjoy the benefits of a solid, loving relationship while it is that, kiss goodbye and keep the memories and the blender without societal censure for "not working hard enough at it".

that's what two cents will buy you on the Cat

Jen