mmmm as a person who has had a few marriages..and been taken advantage of as the knight in shining armour....don't get married unless you are sure that she is the one for you...without other needs such as....lack of funding.....diabetes out of control.....left by another partner and not recovered.....just had a hysterectomy.....
has four children by two different fathers and is purely looking for a man to father them.....
I have unfortunately fallen into a few traps and would now only ever consider someone who wants me purely because I am me!
I feel I have been weak because I have been easily sucked into situations where I am of "Use" to a woman.....never again!
If I ever marry again it will be because SHE loves me with no conditions or problems.......Am I being too harsh here or using common sense at last?
Best wishes, Mike.