the Nepalese say that if you marry someone, you should enjoy talking to them. because in the end, that's all you'll have left.

love can only happen where two people can do it without any hangups - the main crippling hang up being - if that person loves me, there must be something wrong with them (b/c i'm not worth it) therfore i cant love them any more. people with this view seek out people that DONT love them, they end up being rejected on a regular basis.

patience and respect help love continue, and a good sense of humour on both sides.