" just why is it so important to you?"

because words have always had the power to stir emotions, and we have real people reading them. Many people here use this forum to learn, interact with others with like interests...often including RT meetings and music. Most of them do NOT condsider it a place to conduct a personal game of seeing how much dissention and upset they can cause by gratuitously (look it up) entering threads with insults and crude remarks.It makes me sad ...and angry..to see anyone making a special effort to be nasty to to "see what happens".

that's sorta why...

of course, I have no notion that my explanation will make any difference to someone who's idea of 'fun' runs in such strange patterns in the first place...