Jesus Christ, Martin, you have all the sensitivity of a rusted bulldozer. You are a proper shithead sometimes, you know that? Slapping people around at every opportunity, and then bragging about how understanding you are. What a buffoon.

Anyway, Petra, of course it hurts.

But you will get through it. Feel what is there to be felt and then move on.

If your own discreet love interest started before the divorce, that is one of the reaosns you are vulnerable to his hijinks. If you are clear of secrets and aboveboard about things, then you become invulnerable, and if he starts a slander campaign you can sue him. Otherwise, put it in the past and get on with it.


That's my 2 cents. Thanks, Martin, for shutting up long enough for me to say it.

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