Thanks folks.

I had a read through but just missed out any references to Martin Gibson, and concentrated on the rest !

I love the advice to say " I'll tell him you said that." Yes, I will use that.

Also, yes, I am being a bit pathetic. At the moment I am going through lots of phases and the feelings come in waves. I go from pathetic to strong and happy, with a lot of different stuff in the middle !

I understand why you could say I have no right to be jealous, but I am not sure jealousy has to do with rights. In fact I wonder why we feel jealousy at all, but it is something that eats away at us all at some point in our lives. I want to be honest about saying that I do feel it, whether I have a right to or not.


Anyway, I do feel a lot better today and the comments have helped.

Thanks