Apologies if this has already been said but I don't have a lot of time right now to read the whole thread.... if that guy hasn't the discretion to preclude numerous rumours ("all sorts of ladies") and, if that guy is actually living it up with "all sorts of ladies", you are a hell of a lot better off without the rutting pig. The talk will soon curtail his tail to the sluts he deserves. You will always have more dignity than him or anyone he ends up with.