Petra,

That was me who made the 'no right to be jealous' remark. It was somewhat inappropriate on my part, and your response that 'rights and jealousy' don't have to understand each other is only too true.

I think what I should have said is that maybe you should just forget the guy--and I know that is an equally stupid thing for me to say. Kinda like, "Go stand in the corner and don't think of a blue bear"

Hell, if he's out diddlin' any and everything he can get his dick into, why do you think you ever needed someone like that, huh? Move on, girl, and stop your clandestine love affair--announce it and get your life together.

Best to you,

Bruce M