Banjo Bonnie you could always post a message here and/ or in appropriate nesgroups asking about sessions and or folkclubs in your area. Round here, as a general rule, you won't find anybody to play with until you start seeking out those sort of venues and getting to know people.

Liz, what's this I see? You don't like banjos or melodeons?

Jon (proud owner of 2 tenor banjos, 1 5 string - wherever it is, mandolin-banjo and a G/D melodeon and with an intention of learning B/C or C#D one day).