I just lost my job. I have massive financial responsibilities, not the least of which is defending myself constantly in family court from a perpetual custody battle (war). My kid has failed miserably in middle school so I have agreed to let him go to a school for the learning disabled that I have been fighting against to the tune of thousands of dollars. It costs nearly two thousand a month. It will require me to drive 500 miles per week, just for that, never mind getting the other one to school. My very aged parents are now both in failing health. At least I know that the universe is unfolding as it should. I've got that going for me. sheesh. Can a white middle class guy sing the blues?