Open Mike said, "..."if you don't get it at home, you're gonna go looking...." that is not always the case, but "innocence" and "guilt" are not always in black and white..there are many shades of grey/gray/."

NObody has a right to "go looking", no matter what the circumstances are. You have a right to end the relationship and THEN go looking.

Guest said, "If the rotter was named it would lessen the chance of it happening again."

I believe pre-emptive punishment for the possibility of future transgressions is against common law and against common sense. Not to mention libel and slander.