Before you can forgive - or expect anyone else to forgive - it is probably a necessary part of the process to first cease sitting in judgement.

A good start would be to just respond or not to the views of others that add to this debate here - rather than feeling judging the worth of the posters (from their posts) was the object.

But in truth there has been very little of folk posting here - saying that things are black or white or seeing it as good guys v bad guys.