No, Den, you didn't get my point as well.
And I'm not missing the point about the code of conduct. I don't remember exactly how often I have read it, but it (slightly different versions) has been printed in several of the roughly two dozen books I have read about NI. Reading is still a different type of knowledge gathering than living there and I appreciate inside views. But qualification for a comment on this thread comes not only from living in NI.

Wolfgang