I was thinking yesterday that if I started a thread about this situation, I'd title it, "Dear Terri, I'm Sorry."

Sorry no one really knows what's right and is operating on reactive emotion;

Sorry your privacy has been so invaded;

Sorry it's taking so long to let you go;

Sorry it's not taking long enough to decide this really well;

..........


Stuff like that. No, not "sorry" as a personal responsibility exactly-- except that as voting members of a society we all bear some responsibility here-- not fault, but responsibility...

What I thought was that really, being filled with regret about every aspect of this is just about the only "right" response.

~Susan