Hey Cara...I love ya' dear, and I more than understand. In my heavy smoking days, I had a little sign made up for me by a neighboring signmaker, based on a "Shoe" cartoon. It was small enough to fit in my pocket and had a little tab that folded out to make it stand upright. Before lighting up, I simply put it in front of me. It said:

"Thank You for Minding Your Own Business"

HEY BERT---I think we must have gotten married for the no good reason!!! Fortunately the CRS is keeping us from knowing. LMAO (:<))

Spaw