Well, your original post does conatain some pretty slippery language, cowardly person who hides behind his wife's screen name. Take this bit for instance...

If memory serves me right, our troops in Fallujah stumbled across scores of individuals and entire families that were wiped out due to the bad guys holding the town for so long.

...entire families that were wiped out by US forces (ostensibly due to the "bad guys" holding the town for so long).

One has to accept the premise that the US had a right to try to take Fallujah from the people you categorize as "the bad guys" in the first place before one can accept that the blood of these families is not entirely on the hands of the US government. Not everyone does accept that premise.