Earlier, UK Ted said:
There has been a certain resentment on my part that the others haven't been pulling their weight...
Perhaps it's time to move on.

I think you've answered your own question. These things happen, and sometimes it takes a crisis like that bring the problem to your conscious attention, even though the underlying problem has been going on for some time.

The band's never going to work out well if you're carrying all that resentment with you - and what's the point of doing it if you aren't enjoying it?

Anahata