Well since I just admitted to being rude, crude, and lewd somewhere else, I guess its too hypocritical of me to say I agree with Jeri. But I do. If I don't like the "whatever"...I either leave quietly or sit and endure. If others are annoying me, I try to point it out when they start instead of waiting til its become the norm. This has to do strictly with my respect for the performer and not out of any other feeling for the audience. I suppose I should feel for the audience, but I think my respect is for the performance alone. Its a very personal and individual thing when you are watching/listening.spaw